{"id":5828,"date":"2020-06-17T07:50:03","date_gmt":"2020-06-17T07:50:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/a-pressure-cookers-effect\/"},"modified":"2024-09-02T21:53:53","modified_gmt":"2024-09-02T21:53:53","slug":"duduklu-tencere-etkisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/duduklu-tencere-etkisi\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u00fcd\u00fckl\u00fc Tencere Etkisi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(Yazar\u0131 sesli dinlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n.)<\/p>\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-5828-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/7-Duduklu-Tencere-Etkisi.m4a?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/7-Duduklu-Tencere-Etkisi.m4a\">https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/7-Duduklu-Tencere-Etkisi.m4a<\/a><\/audio>\n<p>Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz son \u00fc\u00e7 d\u00f6rt ay, yer k\u00fcrede ya\u015fayan herkes i\u00e7in ayr\u0131 anlam i\u00e7erdi; farkl\u0131 ama\u00e7lara hizmet etti; ve herkes bu evreyi de\u011fi\u015fik \u015fekilde deneyimleyerek, kendine t\u00fcrl\u00fc mesajlar \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. Bir yandan endi\u015fe verici, di\u011fer yandan de\u011ferli kazan\u0131mlarla dolu bir d\u00f6nem oldu&#8230; Ayn\u0131 zamanda her \u015feyin \u00e7ok h\u0131zl\u0131 geli\u015fti\u011fi, olgular\u0131n olgunla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, de\u011fi\u015fimin al\u0131\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fumuz h\u0131zdan \u00f6te bir \u015fekilde cereyan etti\u011fi, bizlerin de h\u0131zla adapte oldu\u011fu bir zaman dilimi diyebiliriz. \u015eubat-May\u0131s 2020 d\u00f6neminde ya\u015fananlar tarih sayfalar\u0131nda (internet sayfalar\u0131 desek daha yerinde olacak) \u00e7ok\u00e7a yer alacak; romanlara, \u015fiirlere, \u015fark\u0131lara, sinema ve tiyatrolara konu olacak&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Peki ya, neler oldu bu 4 ayda? Geriye do\u011fru bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda neler g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsunuz? Hayat\u0131n\u0131zda neler de\u011fi\u015fti; neler ayn\u0131 kald\u0131? Ne t\u00fcr yeni al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar kazand\u0131n\u0131z? Bilerek \u201ckazand\u0131n\u0131z\u201d diyorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc eri\u015fti\u011fimiz her yeni al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k, ister zoraki ister bilin\u00e7li, esas\u0131nda bir kazan\u0131md\u0131r. Herkeste oldu\u011fu gibi, kendimde ve d\u00fcnyada m\u00fcthi\u015f bir de\u011fi\u015fim ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm g\u00f6zlemliyorum&#8230; Yeni d\u00fcnya d\u00fczeni eskisinden olduk\u00e7a farkl\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcnde&#8230; Nelerin bizi bekledi\u011finden \u00e7ok, bu d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm s\u00fcrecin nas\u0131l ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti\u011fine dikkat \u00e7ekmek istiyorum&#8230; Bu s\u00fcrece \u201cD\u00fcd\u00fckl\u00fc Tencere Etkisi\u201d diyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Neden d\u00fcd\u00fckl\u00fc tencere etkisi diye sorguluyorsan\u0131z, sizi bir yolculu\u011fa davet ediyorum&#8230; Kendinizi bir nohut taneci\u011fi olarak hayal edin&#8230; K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck, sert, ve sa\u011flam&#8230; Annenizin mutfa\u011f\u0131nda, s\u0131cac\u0131k kavanozun i\u00e7inde karde\u015flerinizle huzurla ya\u015fam s\u00fcr\u00fcyorsunuz&#8230; G\u00fcnlerden bir g\u00fcn, anneniz sizi ve karde\u015flerinizi bir avu\u00e7la, oldu\u011funuz yerden \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor ve sonuna kadar suyla dolu bir kaba koyuyor&#8230; S\u0131cac\u0131k suyun i\u00e7inde, zamandan habersizce, keyifle uyuyor, bir yandan da \u015fi\u015fiyor, yumu\u015fuyor, rehavete eriyorsunuz&#8230; Adeta sauna banyosu etkisiyle, kabuk at\u0131yorsunuz&#8230; Yenileniyorsunuz&#8230; 10-12 saat sonras\u0131nda, kendinizi yanan ate\u015f s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bir kapta buluyorsunuz; orada iyice \u015fi\u015fiyor \u015fi\u015fiyor, yumu\u015fac\u0131k bir k\u0131vam al\u0131yorsunuz&#8230; Takribi 14 saatte, anneniz, sizi ta\u015ftan farks\u0131z kupkuru bir nohut taneci\u011finden, lezzetine doyum olmayacak bir besin kayna\u011f\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcyor&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Nohut taneci\u011finin ba\u015f\u0131na gelen, \u00e7o\u011fumuzun hayat\u0131nda, ani bir olay olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ko\u015fulda, deneyimledi\u011fi de\u011fi\u015fim ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmle ayn\u0131&#8230; A\u011f\u0131r a\u011f\u0131r ya\u015f ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z gibi, fikirlerimiz, al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z, hayattan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zevklerimiz, veya g\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u015f yap\u0131\u015f \u015fekillerimiz g\u00f6receli h\u0131zda, hayat\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131yla birlikte de\u011fi\u015fiyor&#8230; Asl\u0131nda, \u201cde\u011fi\u015fiyordu\u201d demek daha yerinde olacak&#8230; Covid-19 hayat\u0131m\u0131za girene kadar!<\/p>\n<p>Covid-19 ile ne oldu? D\u00fcd\u00fckl\u00fc tencere etkisiyle her \u015fey h\u0131zland\u0131&#8230; 14 saatlik i\u015flem 1 saate indi; nohut taneci\u011fi bas\u0131n\u00e7 i\u00e7inde h\u0131zla kendini ortama ayak uydurdu, \u015fi\u015fti, kabuk att\u0131, ve yeme k\u0131vam\u0131na geldi. Hi\u00e7 biri bas\u0131nca diren\u00e7 g\u00f6steremedi; yoksa patlard\u0131! Bizler ve d\u00fcnya d\u00fczeni de, ayn\u0131 o nohut taneci\u011fi gibi, 2-3 senelik de\u011fi\u015fim-d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm s\u00fcrecini d\u00f6rt ayda a\u015ft\u0131k&#8230; \u015fartlar gere\u011fi kabuk at\u0131p yumu\u015fad\u0131k&#8230; al\u0131\u015ft\u0131ra al\u0131\u015ft\u0131ra ge\u00e7ecek olan s\u00fcreci, h\u0131zla ileri sar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u015fekilde ya\u015fad\u0131k&#8230; hepimiz, eksiksiz, s\u00fcrecin getirdiklerine ve h\u0131z\u0131na ayak uydurduk&#8230; \u00d6zetle, istesek de istemesek de, direnmeden, an\u0131n getirdi\u011fi de\u011fi\u015fimle beraber d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcd\u00fckl\u00fc tenceremden \u00e7\u0131kma halindeyken, kendimce \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131mlar\u0131m var&#8230; \u201cDe\u011fi\u015fmeyen tek \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fimin kendisidir\u201d der Herakleitos. De\u011fi\u015fimin oldu\u011fu yerde d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm de ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r! Ayn\u0131 zamanda, biliyoruz ki, \u201cgelecek\u201d bir g\u00fcn gelecek&#8230; Ama bu sefer, Covid-19 ile, \u201cgelecek\u201d \u00e7ok daha h\u0131zl\u0131, beklenmedik ve \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtarak geldi&#8230; D\u00fcd\u00fckl\u00fc tencere etkisiyle ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelen s\u00fcreci incelerken, d\u00fcd\u00fckl\u00fc tencerenin kendine de\u011fil de, bizde yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 etkidir \u00f6nemli olan&#8230; O nedenle, nohut taneciklerinin ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi deneyime odaklanmal\u0131y\u0131z&#8230; yap\u0131s\u0131na, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131na, duygular\u0131na, g\u00fcvensizli\u011fine, korkular\u0131na, s\u0131cakl\u0131k ve huzur buldu\u011fu unsurlara bakmal\u0131y\u0131z&#8230; ve belki de kab\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131 yeni ortama g\u00f6z atmal\u0131y\u0131z. Kan\u0131mca, ancak b\u00f6yle bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131, ge\u00e7irmekte oldu\u011fumuz de\u011fi\u015fim ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc destekleyecektir&#8230; s\u00fcreci kolayla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r&#8230; ve bize naho\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen yolculu\u011fu ho\u015f k\u0131lacakt\u0131r&#8230; Yolun getirdi\u011fi her t\u00fcr g\u00fczelli\u011fi daha canl\u0131, daha eri\u015filebilir ve daha anlaml\u0131 hale getirecektir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130yi yolculuklar&#8230;<br \/>\nDr. Shirli Ender B\u00fcy\u00fckbay \/ 17 Haziran 2020<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Yazar\u0131 sesli dinlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n.) Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz son \u00fc\u00e7 d\u00f6rt ay, yer k\u00fcrede ya\u015fayan herkes i\u00e7in ayr\u0131 anlam i\u00e7erdi; farkl\u0131 ama\u00e7lara hizmet etti; ve herkes bu evreyi de\u011fi\u015fik \u015fekilde deneyimleyerek, kendine t\u00fcrl\u00fc mesajlar \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. Bir yandan endi\u015fe verici, di\u011fer yandan de\u011ferli kazan\u0131mlarla dolu bir d\u00f6nem oldu&#8230; Ayn\u0131 zamanda her \u015feyin \u00e7ok h\u0131zl\u0131 geli\u015fti\u011fi, olgular\u0131n olgunla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, de\u011fi\u015fimin [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5678,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[114],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5828","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5828","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5828"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5828\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5940,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5828\/revisions\/5940"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5678"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5828"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5828"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5828"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}