{"id":5408,"date":"2023-03-20T17:05:38","date_gmt":"2023-03-20T17:05:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/?p=5408\/"},"modified":"2024-09-02T21:26:04","modified_gmt":"2024-09-02T21:26:04","slug":"sondan-onceki-son-cikis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/sondan-onceki-son-cikis\/","title":{"rendered":"Sondan \u00d6nceki Son \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015f"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130stanbul\u2019da ya\u015fayan herkes bilir \u201cK\u00f6pr\u00fcden \u00d6nce Son \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u201d tabelas\u0131n\u0131. Ak\u015fam saatinde trafik kuyru\u011funda saatlerini ge\u00e7irdikten sonra bu tabelay\u0131 g\u00f6rmenin mutlulu\u011fu kadar g\u00fczel bir \u015fey yoktur herhalde. Tabii ki de Avrupa yakas\u0131nda kalacaklar i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli bir duygudur bu. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00f6pr\u00fcy\u00fc ge\u00e7ecekler i\u00e7in cefa devam edecek ve \u201cba\u015fa gelen \u00e7ekilir\u201d misaliyle, kaderine boyun e\u011fip yollar\u0131na devam edecekler\u2026 \u00a0Asl\u0131nda bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131 k\u00f6pr\u00fc trafi\u011finden \u00f6te bir olguyu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek yaz\u0131yorum ve \u201ck\u00f6pr\u00fcden \u00f6nceki son \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131\u201d T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin geldi\u011fi son durumun vahametine bir uyar\u0131 te\u015fkil edecek bir metafor olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, ger\u00e7ekten de <em>sondan \u00f6nceki son \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015ftay\u0131z!<\/em> \u015eu a\u015famadan sonra, \u015fu son \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131 ak\u0131ll\u0131ca kullanmazsak, kaderimize kurban gidece\u011fiz\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Daha \u00f6nce yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m\u2026 Depremle beraber umutlar\u0131m yerle bir oldu diye; enkazdan \u00f6fke ve keder \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 diye\u2026 Her canl\u0131 kurtar\u0131ld\u0131k\u00e7a sevin\u00e7 i\u00e7inde olurken, \u00f6l\u00fcm say\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 izledik\u00e7e i\u00e7im par\u00e7aland\u0131 diye\u2026. Ve, umutlar\u0131m ve gelece\u011fin getireceklerine dair t\u00fcm inanc\u0131m zifiri bir karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7ine g\u00f6m\u00fcld\u00fc diye\u2026 Sanki karanl\u0131k ayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bast\u0131r\u0131yor ve karabasan yay\u0131l\u0131yor gibi. Yani, daha \u00f6tesi yok! Her \u00f6l\u00fcm bir sondan ibaret! \u00d6l\u00fcm dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey, filmlerde, haberlerde veya yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f senaryolarda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz gibi bir \u015fey de\u011fil. Buz gibi so\u011fuk, karanl\u0131k, ve bombo\u015f bir son. Gidenin geriye gelmedi\u011fi bir son!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sinir bozucu olacak, biliyorum, ama sormak istiyorum: Hi\u00e7 \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? Kendi \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcz olabilir, sevdiklerinizin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc, veya d\u00fcnyada zamans\u0131z ve s\u0131ras\u0131z \u00f6len insanlar\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc\u2026 Hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? Ben \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum\u2026 Peki ya hi\u00e7 \u00f6l\u00fcme yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hissettiniz mi? Ben hisettim\u2026 Hem de \u00fc\u00e7 defa! (Ger\u00e7i, iki bu\u00e7uk ya\u015f\u0131mda komaya giri\u015fimi de sayarsak d\u00f6rt de diyebilirim) Peki ya hi\u00e7 r\u00fcyan\u0131zda \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc veya \u00f6lmek \u00fczere olu\u015funuzu deneyimlediniz mi? Ben deneyimledim. Hem de \u00fc\u00e7 defa! Hepsinde o bahsini etti\u011fim sonun karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, so\u011fuklu\u011funu, bo\u015flu\u011funu, bitmi\u015fli\u011fini, onun \u00f6tesinin olmay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n inan\u0131lmaz a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tatt\u0131m! \u00c7ok a\u011f\u0131r!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>En sonuncusu, 6 \u015eubat sabah\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm r\u00fcyayd\u0131; darac\u0131k bir alana s\u0131k\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f, birinin elimi tuttu\u011fu bir arafta oldu\u011fum bir sahne&#8230; Hala g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcndedir! Hepimizin ekranlardan haf\u0131zas\u0131na kaz\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir resmin g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen taraf\u0131ndayd\u0131m sanki. Turuncu kurtarma ceketiyle enkaz ba\u015f\u0131nda k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n elini tutan baban\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131ym\u0131\u015f\u0131m gibi, g\u00f6\u00e7\u00fck alt\u0131nda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir pencereden bana uzanm\u0131\u015f bir eli tutuyordum. R\u00fcyamda, geldiler ve beni \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131lar!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>R\u00fcya ile ger\u00e7ek aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131m\u0131n ne kadar zor oldu\u011funu anlatmama gerek yok. Hepimiz biliyoruz ki, r\u00fcyan\u0131n i\u00e7inde ne ya\u015f\u0131yorsan, o an senin i\u00e7in ger\u00e7eklik o oluyor! O y\u00fczden de deneyimlerimiz ve duygular\u0131m\u0131z o denli ger\u00e7ek\u00e7idir! Depremden beri gece g\u00fcnd\u00fcz g\u00f6\u00e7\u00fck alt\u0131nda yard\u0131m elini bekleyenleri hissederek ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek kahrolacak gibi oldum. R\u00fcyamda enkaz alt\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131ld\u0131m, ama b\u00fct\u00fcn mesele ger\u00e7ek d\u00fcnyada \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131l(a)mayan on binlerce can o bahsini etti\u011fim sona gitti, karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6tesinde neyin oldu\u011funu bilmedi\u011fimiz o yere.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>Konuyu nereye getirmeye u\u011fra\u015f\u0131yorsun Shirli?<\/em>\u201d diyorsunuzdur\u2026 6 \u015eubat ile ba\u015flayan k\u00e2bus bitmedi, bitmiyor\u2026 Geldi\u011fimiz bu d\u00fcnyada \u201cbir kez ya\u015fars\u0131n\u201d diye yanl\u0131\u015f bir s\u00f6ylem var. Do\u011frusu, \u201c<em>Bir kez \u00f6l\u00fcrs\u00fcn, ama her g\u00fcn ya\u015fars\u0131n<\/em>\u201d olacak! Ne var ki, \u015fu can\u0131m \u00fclkemde her g\u00fcn ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za, her g\u00fcn canl\u0131 canl\u0131 \u00f6l\u00fcyoruz, \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc s\u00fcrekli tad\u0131yoruz. Tabii her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn cinayete kurban giden kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne de\u011finmek dahi istemiyorum. Art\u0131k yeter diyorum! Ya\u015fayacaksak onurumuzla, ve her g\u00fcn ya\u015fayal\u0131m! \u00d6leceksek de bir defada \u00f6lelim!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bir elin parma\u011f\u0131 etmeyecek kadar <em>k\u0131sa<\/em> ama bir \u00f6m\u00fcr kadar <em>uzun<\/em> ge\u00e7en \u015fu birka\u00e7 haftada gen\u00e7lerden defalarca ayn\u0131 s\u00f6zleri duydum: \u201c<em>Bu \u00fclke benim \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumu ve gen\u00e7li\u011fimi \u00e7ald\u0131 benden. Bana bor\u00e7lu ve kesinlikle hakk\u0131m\u0131 helal etmiyorum!<\/em>\u201d Hakl\u0131lar!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Art\u0131k yeter!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Zor zamanlar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc insanlar yarat\u0131r. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc insanlar kolay zamanlar yarat\u0131r. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Kolayla\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir hayat zay\u0131f insanlar yarat\u0131r. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ve zay\u0131f insanlar zor zamanlar yarat\u0131r.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Art\u0131k <em>ger\u00e7ekten<\/em> yeter!<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7lerimize ve ard\u0131ndan gelecek nesillere sorumlulu\u011fumuz ve borcumuz var!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Onlara olan borcumuz, \u015fu ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz zor zamanlardan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bireyler yaratmak, do\u011fruyu se\u00e7erek rol model olmakt\u0131r. O y\u00fczden, \u201c<em>sondan \u00f6nceki son \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015ftay\u0131z!<\/em>\u201d derken, kritik an\u0131n i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fumuzu hat\u0131rlatmak, ve k\u00fclah\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze alma ve do\u011fru olan\u0131 yapma zaman\u0131n geldi\u011fini vurgulamak istiyorum.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ya k\u0131yametten \u00f6nceki son \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7ip do\u011fru yola girece\u011fiz, ya da kaderimize kurban gidip sonun karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na do\u011fru tam gaz devam edece\u011fiz. Ya onurumuzla ya\u015famaya ve ya\u015fatmaya devam edece\u011fiz, ya da \u00f6lece\u011fimiz g\u00fcne kadar her g\u00fcn tekrar tekrar \u00f6lmeye devam edece\u011fiz. Bu nedenle 14 May\u0131s g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc ve son \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 ak\u0131ll\u0131ca de\u011ferlendirelim derim&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Bilmem anlatabildim mi?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Barcelona\u2019dan Shirli<\/p>\n<p>20 Mart 2023<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130stanbul\u2019da ya\u015fayan herkes bilir \u201cK\u00f6pr\u00fcden \u00d6nce Son \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u201d tabelas\u0131n\u0131. Ak\u015fam saatinde trafik kuyru\u011funda saatlerini ge\u00e7irdikten sonra bu tabelay\u0131 g\u00f6rmenin mutlulu\u011fu kadar g\u00fczel bir \u015fey yoktur herhalde. Tabii ki de Avrupa yakas\u0131nda kalacaklar i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli bir duygudur bu. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00f6pr\u00fcy\u00fc ge\u00e7ecekler i\u00e7in cefa devam edecek ve \u201cba\u015fa gelen \u00e7ekilir\u201d misaliyle, kaderine boyun e\u011fip yollar\u0131na devam edecekler\u2026 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5410,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[114],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5408","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5408","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5408"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5408\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5409,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5408\/revisions\/5409"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5410"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5408"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5408"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5408"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}