{"id":5272,"date":"2022-04-02T12:10:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-02T12:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/?p=5272\/"},"modified":"2024-09-02T21:27:03","modified_gmt":"2024-09-02T21:27:03","slug":"saka-gibi-bir-1-nisan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/saka-gibi-bir-1-nisan\/","title":{"rendered":"\u015eaka Gibi Bir 1 Nisan!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131 2 Nisan sabah\u0131 yaz\u0131yorum\u2026 Kayak yar\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7in Espot\u2019tay\u0131z\u2026 Bahar geldi\u2026 (demek istiyorum)\u2026 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Nisan demek <em>bahar<\/em> demek\u2026 \u00c7o\u011fu arkada\u015f\u0131m sosyal medyada foto\u011fraflarla \u201cbahar geldi\u201d mesajlar\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131rken ben, bahar\u0131n bizim i\u00e7in hen\u00fcz \u00e7ok uzakta oldu\u011funu, kar k\u0131\u015f k\u0131yametin i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fumuzu payla\u015ft\u0131m d\u00fcn gece. Kuvvetli r\u00fczgarla birlikte a\u011f\u0131r bir tipiyle kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131yay\u0131z; s\u0131cakl\u0131k eksi 9 derece\u2026 K\u00f6t\u00fc hava \u015fartlar\u0131 dolays\u0131yla yar\u0131\u015f iptal. Ne bahar\u0131! Tam bir <em>1 Nisan \u015fakas\u0131<\/em>! 1 Nisan deyince akla matrak hikayeler, \u015fakalar ve sonunda patlak veren kahkahalar gelir. Son d\u00f6nemde \u201c<em>\u015eaka gibi!!!<\/em>\u201d diyece\u011fimiz <em>\u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc<\/em> olaylar\u0131n yan\u0131nda, \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 nitelikte <em>g\u00fczel<\/em> olaylar da \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za. Ehhh\u2026 hayat i\u015fte, nas\u0131l al\u0131rsan\u2026 Ac\u0131\/tatl\u0131 s\u00fcrprizlerle dolu\u2026 \u201c<em>Geleni nas\u0131l al\u0131rsan \u00f6yle ya\u015fars\u0131n\u201d<\/em> diyorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc tats\u0131z \u015fakalar bazen mucizevi \u015fekilde tersine de i\u015fleyebiliyor\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcn,1 Nisan Cuma\u2019yd\u0131. Sanki <em>13nc\u00fc Cuma!<\/em> Barcelona\u2019da hava g\u00fcnl\u00fck g\u00fcne\u015flik, hafif r\u00fczg\u00e2r ve biraz serin, ama s\u00fcper bir bahar havas\u0131 vard\u0131. Arabay\u0131 y\u00fckledik, kayaklar tepede, yola koyulduk\u2026 \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcm\u00fczde de tatl\u0131 bir huzur ve tebess\u00fcm\u2026 Sezonun son yar\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve sonras\u0131nda kar havas\u0131na <em>adios<\/em> diyece\u011fiz, s\u0131cak denizlere <em>fora<\/em> edece\u011fiz\u2026 Bir yandan akl\u0131m\u0131 kurcalayan bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce\u2026 1 Nisan gelmi\u015f ama ben yapacak \u015faka bulamam\u0131\u015f\u0131m! \u201cBo\u015f ge\u00e7ecek bu sene\u201d diyorum kendime; bir yandan da ak\u0131\u015fa b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f, elbet f\u0131rsat \u00e7\u0131kar diye ge\u00e7iriyorum i\u00e7imden. Evren sa\u011f olsun, benden \u00f6nce davran\u0131p g\u00fcn\u00fc bo\u015f ge\u00e7irmiyor ve s\u00fcrprizini <em>patlat\u0131yor<\/em>! \u00dc\u00e7 bu\u00e7uk saatlik yolumuzun yar\u0131s\u0131ndayken, otoyoldan \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131za 5 dakika kala, ak\u0131ll\u0131 Mini\u2019miz uyar\u0131 veriyor: sa\u011f arka lastikte hava ka\u00e7a\u011f\u0131! Haydaaaa\u2026 ne gereksiz durum! En yak\u0131n benzinci nerde diye bak\u0131yoruz, 7-8 kilometre \u00f6tede, yolumuzun \u00fcst\u00fc olan Agramunt kasabas\u0131nda bir tane buluyoruz. Benzinciye do\u011fru devam ederken teker arabay\u0131 \u00e7ekiyor\u2026 Durup bak\u0131yoruz\u2026 Parlak de\u011fil. Lastik patlak! <em>\u015eaka gibi!!!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Benzinciden vazge\u00e7ip lastik tamircisi aramaya ba\u015fl\u0131yoruz\u2026 Saat 17:00! Katalunya\u2019n\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu evine \u00e7ekildi\u011fi Cuma ak\u015fam\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k servis bulmak mesele. Google Maps\u2019e \u201ctaller de neumaticos\u201d yaz\u0131yorum, onca kere \u00f6n\u00fcnden ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz Rodi Motor\u2019u veriyor bana. Ar\u0131yorum\u2026 A\u00e7\u0131k! Ya\u015fas\u0131\u0131\u0131n! Bozuk \u0130spanyolcamla durumu anlat\u0131yorum. Bizi bekliyor! Lastik yere yap\u0131\u015f\u0131k vaziyette servise var\u0131yoruz. Bizi kar\u015f\u0131layan gen\u00e7 adam -ismi Marc- lasti\u011fe bak\u0131yor, \u201cpek iyi g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fcyor\u201d diyor. Koca bir tahta par\u00e7as\u0131 delmi\u015f, t\u0131pa gibi i\u00e7indeki havay\u0131 tutuyor. Marc \u201ctamir ederim ama lasti\u011fin al\u0131n k\u0131sm\u0131 a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in riskli\u201d diyor. Daha en az 150 km yolumuz, bir de d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcz var!!! Naapcaaaz???? Klasik T\u00fcrk kafas\u0131yla \u201cbize lastik satmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor\u201d desek de, yapacak bir \u015fey yok, cezam\u0131z neyse verece\u011fiz, yeter ki yolumuza sa\u011flam devam edelim diyoruz. As\u0131l mesele, \u0130spanya\u2019n\u0131n bir k\u00f6\u015fesinde <em>nev-i \u015fahs\u0131na m\u00fcnhas\u0131r<\/em> lasti\u011fimize benzerini veya uyan\u0131 bulmak. Adeta tersine i\u015fleyen 1 Nisan \u015fakas\u0131 i\u00e7indeyiz\u2026 Marc depodan bir yedek lastikle geliyor\u2026 Delik olan bagajda, kuru\u015f almadan bizi yedek lastikle yolcu ediyor. <em>\u015eaka gibi!!!<\/em> \u201cMarc,\u201d diyorum, \u201csenin g\u00f6bek ad\u0131n Angel (melek)\u2026\u201d Anlam\u0131yor; ama biliyorum, evren \u015f\u00fckran ve dualar\u0131m\u0131 i\u015fitiyor.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Yola devam ediyoruz. Kaybetti\u011fimiz 40 dakikay\u0131 kapama \u00e7abas\u0131yla yol al\u0131yoruz. Do\u011fa harikas\u0131 yollardan ge\u00e7iyoruz. Elimde telefon da\u011flar\u0131 kayalar\u0131 ye\u015filleri kaydediyorum\u2026 Birden aniden yava\u015fl\u0131yoruz\u2026 Polis! H\u0131z s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fm\u0131\u015f\u0131z, ceza yiyoruz\u2026 Bir 40 dakika daha kaybediyoruz. <em>\u015eaka gibi!!!<\/em> \u0130\u015fimiz bitmi\u015f, tam yola \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131z, telefon \u00e7al\u0131yor\u2026 Kayak kul\u00fcb\u00fcnden Katalan arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z Judit ve Carles. Onlar da Espot yolcusu. Tek t\u00fck araban\u0131n ge\u00e7ti\u011fi, Allah\u2019\u0131n unuttu\u011fu bu noktada bizi polisle debelenirken g\u00f6r\u00fcyorlar ve ar\u0131yorlar\u2026 \u201c<em>Ne oldu, her \u015fey yolunda m\u0131?<\/em>\u201d diyorlar\u2026 Parliament mavisi Mini\u2019mizi ta uzaklardan g\u00f6ren herkes \u201ca-ha bunlar B\u00fcy\u00fckbaylar\u201d diyebilir\u2026 \ud83d\ude42 \u201cHer \u015fey yolunda, ceza yedik\u201d diyorum\u2026 Sonra da kocama d\u00f6n\u00fcp \u201c<em>\u015eaka gibi!!! E<\/em>vren Marc\u2019a olan borcumuzu tahsil etti\u201d diyorum\u2026 Ve yolumuza \u201ciki olayla kapatsak g\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d diyerek devam ediyoruz\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Yolun devam\u0131 vukuats\u0131z ge\u00e7ti\u2026 T\u00fcnellerin, da\u011flar\u0131n vadilerin aras\u0131ndan \u015fahane manzaralar\u0131n i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7erek, bir saat gecikmeyle vard\u0131k. (K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hesaplama yap\u0131nca yine h\u0131z yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z apa\u00e7\u0131k ortada!!!) G\u00fcn\u00fc efsanevi s\u00fcrprizle kapatt\u0131k\u2026 Bahar\u0131n bu ilk g\u00fcn\u00fcnde, do\u011fay\u0131 tomurcuklanm\u0131\u015f a\u011fa\u00e7lar\u0131yla beklerken, kar \u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcyle uykuda bulduk. Bize yeni y\u0131l havas\u0131 hissettiren, i\u00e7imizi k\u0131p\u0131r k\u0131p\u0131r ettiren, a\u015fk\u0131 ve romantizmi uyand\u0131ran bir kar havas\u0131yla g\u00fcn\u00fc kapatt\u0131k. Bug\u00fcne de <em>yar\u0131\u015f iptal<\/em> haberiyle ba\u015flad\u0131k. \u0130\u015fte benim k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fcnyamda 1 Nisan g\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00f6ylesi <em>tersine i\u015fleyen<\/em> ve<em> \u015eaka gibi!!! <\/em>dedi\u011fim<em> s\u00fcrprizlerle<\/em> cereyan etti.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fcrpriz deyince \u00e7o\u011funlukla akla tatl\u0131 ho\u015f ve mutluluk uyand\u0131ran olaylar gelir\u2026 Halbuki s\u00fcrpriz, iyisiyle ve k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fcyle <em>belirsizli\u011fin<\/em> yavrusudur. Seminerlerimde <em>VUCA*<\/em> d\u00f6neminde ya\u015fama ve hayatta kalman\u0131n p\u00fcf noktalar\u0131 konusunda daima vurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00f6nemli bir noktad\u0131r bu. Belirsizlik bir durumdur, bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir; s\u00fcrprizse bir sonu\u00e7tur. Alg\u0131sal olarak s\u00fcrprizlere a\u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131zd\u0131r, oysa belirsizliklere s\u0131k\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131ya kapal\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biri ne\u015fe, mutluluk ve tatl\u0131 tebess\u00fcm yarat\u0131rken, di\u011feri iste\u011fimiz d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furaca\u011f\u0131na dair huzursuzluk, korku ve endi\u015fe getirir. O y\u00fczden \u201chayat\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir s\u00fcrpriz \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtmas\u0131n seni\u201d diye temennide bulunuruz. S\u00fcrpriz, ad\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcne \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtan, haz\u0131rl\u0131ks\u0131z yakalayan, aniden \u00e7\u0131kagelen bir olgudan ba\u015fka \u015fey de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bu denklemin i\u00e7inde bir de <em>mucizeler<\/em> vard\u0131r, ki tesad\u00fcf gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ama bence de\u011fildir. Onlar s\u00fcrprizin can karde\u015fidir. Hi\u00e7 beklemedi\u011fimiz anda lasti\u011fimizin patlamas\u0131 <em>beklenmedik (aksi) s\u00fcrprizdir<\/em>! \u0130nik lastikle belirsizlik i\u00e7inde yol al\u0131rken o saatte a\u00e7\u0131k servis bulmam\u0131z ayr\u0131 <em>beklenmedik (\u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131) s\u00fcrprizdir<\/em>! Marc <em>Angel<\/em>\u2019in deposunda uygun yedek lastik bulmas\u0131 ve bizi <em>belirsizlikten <\/em>kurtarmas\u0131ysa <em>beklenmedik<\/em> ama <em>arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z mucizevi s\u00fcrprizdir<\/em>! G\u00fcn\u00fcn her an\u0131 beklenmedik mucizevi s\u00fcrprizlerle kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131yay\u0131z, ama bir\u00e7o\u011funun fark\u0131nda de\u011filiz. Bakmay\u0131 bilsek, kalbimizi olas\u0131l\u0131klara a\u00e7abilsek ve mucizevi s\u00fcrprizlerin bizi bekledi\u011fine inansak belki ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenleri <em>\u015eaka gibi!!!<\/em> de\u011fil de mucizevi s\u00fcrprizler olarak alaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ve\u2026 Bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131 tu\u015flarken, ya\u015famlar\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 \u00e7eken t\u00fcm canlar\u0131, zorunlu g\u00f6\u00e7menleri, sava\u015f m\u00fcltecilerini, a\u00e7l\u0131k ve yoksulluk \u00e7ekenleri, \u015fiddete maruz kalan kad\u0131nlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum\u2026 Ve diliyorum; kar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131na <em>tersine i\u015fleyen <\/em>\u015fakalar, <em>mucizevi s\u00fcrprizler<\/em> ve melek insanlar \u00e7\u0131kars\u0131n hayat\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Espot\u2019tan sevgiler\u2026<\/p>\n<p>2 Nisan 2022<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>*VUCA= Volatility (de\u011fi\u015fkenlik), Uncertainty (belirsizlik), Complexity (karma\u015f\u0131kl\u0131k), Ambiguity (mu\u011flakl\u0131k)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131 2 Nisan sabah\u0131 yaz\u0131yorum\u2026 Kayak yar\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7in Espot\u2019tay\u0131z\u2026 Bahar geldi\u2026 (demek istiyorum)\u2026 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Nisan demek bahar demek\u2026 \u00c7o\u011fu arkada\u015f\u0131m sosyal medyada foto\u011fraflarla \u201cbahar geldi\u201d mesajlar\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131rken ben, bahar\u0131n bizim i\u00e7in hen\u00fcz \u00e7ok uzakta oldu\u011funu, kar k\u0131\u015f k\u0131yametin i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fumuzu payla\u015ft\u0131m d\u00fcn gece. Kuvvetli r\u00fczgarla birlikte a\u011f\u0131r bir tipiyle kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131yay\u0131z; s\u0131cakl\u0131k eksi 9 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5274,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[114],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5272","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5272","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5272"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5272\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5279,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5272\/revisions\/5279"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5274"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5272"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5272"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5272"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}