Bug\u00fcn 15 Aral\u0131k, k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc. Tam 17 sene \u00f6nce bug\u00fcn, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z evrenin kozmik ve ilahi g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na bizzat \u015fahit oldum. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n e\u015fi benzeri olmayan bir deneyim oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyebilirim. Bunu tek ya\u015fayan ben olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ma ve benim gibi d\u00fcnyaya bir can getiren t\u00fcm annelerin benzerini ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131na eminim. Do\u011fumu sonras\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131ma bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda bir canl\u0131y\u0131 yoktan var etmenin inan\u0131lmaz sihrini ve i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz gizemli evrenin g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. 17 y\u0131l sonra bug\u00fcn ona bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, adeta bir ressam\u0131n renk paletinde oldu\u011fu gibi, nerdeyse her \u015feye sahip, isteyebilece\u011fi t\u00fcm renkleri kendinde bar\u0131nd\u0131ran bir gen\u00e7 k\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ne\u015fesi yerinde, becerikli ve her \u015feyiyle bir b\u00fct\u00fcn. Ne var ki, her canl\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya b\u00f6ylesine tam ve b\u00fct\u00fcn gelmiyor. Herkes e\u015fit ko\u015fullarla do\u011fmuyor, e\u015fit imkanlarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fm\u0131yor ve e\u015fit \u015fartlar i\u00e7inde ya\u015fam\u0131yor. Belki de hayatta olabilecek en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fans do\u011fdu\u011fu yer, ailesi ve genleri kadar, ki\u015finin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kanlard\u0131r, elinden tutanlard\u0131r, yan\u0131nda olup yol g\u00f6sterenlerdir, y\u00fcr\u00fcme g\u00fcc\u00fc ve imk\u00e2n\u0131 verip ilerlemek i\u00e7in ona yolu a\u00e7anlard\u0131r. \u00d6zetle, her \u015feye ra\u011fmen ba\u015f\u0131na gelebilen g\u00fczelliklerdir. Bununla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fanlar ne b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fans oldu\u011funu \u00e7ok iyi bilirler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, \u015fanstan \u00f6tedir, bir nimettir! \u00d6yle ki, kendilerine sunulan\u0131n \u00e7o\u011falmas\u0131 ve yay\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in minnetle ve \u00f6zveriyle \u00e7abalarlar; par\u00e7as\u0131 olup aidiyet kurarlar; ve kendileri b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fckleri ve geli\u015ftikleri gibi, \u00e7evresindekilerin b\u00fcy\u00fcmeleri ve geli\u015fmelerine \u00f6nayak olurlar.<\/p>\n
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Anlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00fczere, bir sivil toplum kurulu\u015fundan bahsediyorum. Hem de \u00e7ok \u00f6zel bir STK! Faaliyetlerinin nas\u0131l bir nimet oldu\u011fu anlat\u0131lmaz; ya\u015fan\u0131r! Y\u00fczlercesi var, ancak y\u0131llard\u0131r e\u011fitim camias\u0131 i\u00e7inde olmama ra\u011fmen, b\u00f6ylesi STK\u2019yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. \u00d6zel olu\u015funun bir\u00e7ok nedeni var: (1) Faaliyetlerini engelli ve engelsiz \u00fcniversiteli gen\u00e7lerle y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fcyor, yani gen\u00e7li\u011fin t\u00fcm farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131yla birlikte rengarenk bir mozaik olu\u015fturuyor; (2) gen\u00e7 kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n ufuklar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131yor, ayd\u0131nlat\u0131yor, istihdam imkanlar\u0131 sa\u011flayarak geleceklerine umut veriyor; (3) onlar\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcnsel becerilerle donat\u0131yor, hayata haz\u0131rl\u0131yor -salt istihdam edilebilirlik \u00fczerine de\u011fil, engelsiz eri\u015filebilirlik, insan haklar\u0131, liderlik, sosyal sorumluluk, s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclebilirlik, vs. konular\u0131 temel alan aktif vatanda\u015fl\u0131k alg\u0131s\u0131 ve ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imini a\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor; (4) kendi b\u00fcnyesinde onlara alan a\u00e7\u0131yor, g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma olanaklar\u0131 ve gen\u00e7 kadrolarda aktif g\u00f6revle programdan ald\u0131klar\u0131 kazan\u0131mlar\u0131 geri aktarma imkan\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yor; (5) 2015 y\u0131l\u0131ndan bug\u00fcne 300\u2019den fazla engelli ve engelsiz gence ula\u015farak hayatlar\u0131nda ad\u0131m ad\u0131m fark yarat\u0131yor, bireylerde \u00f6zsayg\u0131, \u00f6z-disiplin ve \u00f6zg\u00fcvene dayal\u0131 gelecek in\u015fa ediyor; (6) kendim de dahil olmak \u00fczere, alan\u0131nda yetkin ve m\u00fcthi\u015f \u00f6zveriyle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc ment\u00f6r kadrosunun deste\u011fi ve aktif kat\u0131l\u0131m\u0131yla faaliyetlerini y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fcyor; ve\u2026 (7) 5 harika kad\u0131n\u0131n –Arzu G\u00fcne\u015fli, P\u0131nar G\u00f6kp\u0131nar, Kristina Steinb\u00fcchel, Suna \u00d6zpar ve \u0130dil Ander<\/em>– bir araya gelerek \u201cRenkli Kamp\u00fcs\u201d ad\u0131yla ba\u015flatt\u0131klar\u0131 bu sosyal giri\u015fimcilik hayali, bug\u00fcn dev g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc kadrosu, payda\u015flar\u0131, destek\u00e7ileri ve ba\u011f\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131yla birlikte efsane bir filantropi alan\u0131 olu\u015fturuyor\u2026 K\u0131sa s\u00fcre \u00f6nce STK stat\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc alan ve \u201cD\u00fcnyay\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in d\u00fcnyan\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftir<\/em>\u201d mottosuyla misyonunu y\u00fcr\u00fcten De\u011fi\u015ftiren Ad\u0131mlar Derne\u011fi \u00a0(DADER) \u00a0t\u00fcm takip\u00e7ileri i\u00e7in topluma verme ve aktarma f\u0131rsat\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yor. (DADER\u2019le ilgili daha fazla bilgi i\u00e7in degistirenadimlar.org<\/a>).<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n 2015 y\u0131l\u0131ndan beri g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcs\u00fc ve dernek \u00fcyesi olmama ra\u011fmen, Renkli Kamp\u00fcs\u2019le ilgili hi\u00e7 yazmam\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fumun fark\u0131na vard\u0131m. Oysa say\u0131s\u0131z de\u011ferli gen\u00e7le etkile\u015fim i\u00e7inde oldum; birlikte, zihinlerimiz, kalplerimiz ve hayallerimiz birle\u015fik olarak parlak projeler \u00fczerine \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u2026 Beni bu yaz\u0131m\u0131 yazmaya itense bir arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n 3 Aral\u0131k D\u00fcnya Engelliler G\u00fcn\u00fc dolay\u0131s\u0131yla sosyal medyada payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu resimle 5 Aral\u0131k D\u00fcnya G\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcler G\u00fcn\u00fc oldu. Resimde el yaz\u0131s\u0131yla \u201cAnnelerin en b\u00fcy\u00fck korkusu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6lmesiymi\u015f. Engelli annelerininki, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan \u00f6nce \u00f6lmek!<\/em>\u201d yaz\u0131yor. Bu s\u00f6zleri ilk okudu\u011fumda tabii ki \u00e7ok etkilendim; halen de her okudu\u011fumda, \u00f6zellikle bir anne olarak, beni \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcyor\u2026 G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz \u015fartlar\u0131nda bir ebeveyn olmak zaten yeterince zor\u2026 \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za ya\u015fam ve olanak sa\u011flamak ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na bir m\u00fccadele gerektirirken, yoklu\u011fumuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemiyorum! Kendilerini ve ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131 idame etmeleri i\u00e7in ihtiya\u00e7 duyduklar\u0131 yetkinlikleri sa\u011flamada ne \u00f6rg\u00fcn \u00f6\u011fretim ne de aile i\u00e7i e\u011fitim yeterli olabiliyor. Ger\u00e7ek hayat okuldan sonra ba\u015fl\u0131yor. \u00c7ok sevdi\u011fim aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm rahmetli Albert Basan\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6zleri geliyor akl\u0131ma: \u201cOkul ile hayat aras\u0131nda en b\u00fcy\u00fck fark, okulda dersini \u00f6\u011frenir s\u0131nav\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131rs\u0131n, oysa hayatta \u00f6nce s\u0131nav\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r sonra dersini \u00f6\u011frenirsin!<\/em>\u201d derdi. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hayata haz\u0131rlamak bize, toplum g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fclerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Kendi ayaklar\u0131 \u00fczerinde durmalar\u0131 ve ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fctebilmeleri i\u00e7in Renkli Kamp\u00fcs \/DADER gibi sistematik faaliyetlerin \u015fart oldu\u011funu kabul etmeli, g\u00f6n\u00fcl ve destek vermeliyiz.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n 2015 y\u0131l\u0131ndan beri \u00fcniversiteli gen\u00e7lere ula\u015fan DADER, yeni projesiyle \u015fimdi Liseli gen\u00e7lere de ula\u015fmay\u0131 hedefliyor. Umutluyum ve \u00e7ok mutluyum\u2026 Engelli ve engelsiz t\u00fcm \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n annelerinin g\u00f6z\u00fc arkada kalmayacak art\u0131k\u2026 Gen\u00e7lerimizi siyah-beyaz de\u011fil, daha renkli bir gelecek bekliyor\u2026 Devir de\u011fi\u015fti\u2026 Hayat dersi dedi\u011fimiz \u00f6\u011fretilerin s\u0131navlar\u0131na ment\u00f6r ve yol g\u00f6stericilerin e\u015fli\u011finde haz\u0131rlanarak hayata at\u0131l\u0131yor gen\u00e7ler. Eskisine k\u0131yasla bug\u00fcn daha \u00f6nde ba\u015flayabiliyor, yollar\u0131n\u0131 bulabiliyorlar; gereksinim duyduklar\u0131 yetkinliklere ve olanaklara eri\u015febiliyor, kendilerini hayal ettikleri yerlerde g\u00f6rebilmeye daha da yakla\u015f\u0131yorlar; ve t\u00fcm zorluklara ve engellere ra\u011fmen arzu ettikleri bi\u00e7imde toplumda yerlerini bulabiliyorlar. Hepsi de Renkli Kamp\u00fcs \/ DADER sayesinde\u2026<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kurucular\u0131na ve t\u00fcm g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc kadrosuna ve ilk olu\u015fumundan beri par\u00e7as\u0131 olma ayr\u0131cal\u0131\u011f\u0131na minnet ve \u015f\u00fckranla\u2026 Barcelona\u2019dan sevgiler.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n 15 Aral\u0131k 2021<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Bug\u00fcn 15 Aral\u0131k, k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc. Tam 17 sene \u00f6nce bug\u00fcn, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z evrenin kozmik ve ilahi g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na bizzat \u015fahit oldum. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n e\u015fi benzeri olmayan bir deneyim oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyebilirim. Bunu tek ya\u015fayan ben olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ma ve benim gibi d\u00fcnyaya bir can getiren t\u00fcm annelerin benzerini ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131na eminim. Do\u011fumu sonras\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131ma bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda bir canl\u0131y\u0131 yoktan var etmenin […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5225,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[114],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5223","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5223","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5223"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5223\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5224,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5223\/revisions\/5224"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5225"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5223"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5223"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5223"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}