{"id":5165,"date":"2023-01-08T16:13:44","date_gmt":"2023-01-08T16:13:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/?p=5165\/"},"modified":"2024-09-02T21:26:05","modified_gmt":"2024-09-02T21:26:05","slug":"yanindayim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/yanindayim\/","title":{"rendered":"Yan\u0131nday\u0131m!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yeni y\u0131l demek yeni ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar demek. Yeni giri\u015fimler, kararlar, at\u0131l\u0131mlar ve i\u015f birliklerini i\u00e7ermesi bak\u0131m\u0131ndan \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fu kadar, ge\u00e7mi\u015f y\u0131llarda yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, i\u015f birliklerimizin ve yat\u0131r\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclmesi bak\u0131m\u0131ndan da \u00f6nemlidir, yeni y\u0131la giri\u015f. Ge\u00e7mi\u015f y\u0131llarda \u00e7ok\u00e7a deli dolu ve \u201cak\u0131ll\u0131 i\u015fi\u201d diyece\u011fim \u015fey yapt\u0131m. \u00d6zellikle toplumsal ve insani fayday\u0131 g\u00f6zeten yat\u0131r\u0131mlarda bulundum ve \u00e7o\u011funlukla gen\u00e7lerin hedef kitle oldu\u011fu \u00e7e\u015fitli sivil toplum kurulu\u015flar\u0131nda g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc ment\u00f6rl\u00fck ve ko\u00e7luk \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fcm. Halen, ment\u00f6rl\u00fck ve ko\u00e7luk vas\u0131tas\u0131yla, kar\u015f\u0131 cinsleriyle ayn\u0131 \u015fartlara, f\u0131rsatlara ve imkanlara sahip olmasalar da bireysel \u00f6zelliklerini, yetkinliklerini ve benlik alg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 yap\u0131land\u0131rarak gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131n g\u00fc\u00e7lenmelerine ve hayata at\u0131lmalar\u0131na destek olmaktay\u0131m.<\/p>\n

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San\u0131r\u0131m, ayaklar\u0131 \u00fczerinde durmay\u0131 ba\u015farm\u0131\u015f, kendi se\u00e7imleriyle ya\u015fam s\u00fcren, kendine g\u00fcveni ve inanc\u0131 tam bir kad\u0131n olarak, hen\u00fcz yolun ba\u015f\u0131ndaki (salt kad\u0131nlar de\u011fil) t\u00fcm gen\u00e7 bireylerin yan\u0131nda olmak, onlara \u00f6rnek ve rehber olmak benim ya\u015fam ama\u00e7lar\u0131mdan biri olsa gerek. Zira, \u00f6\u011fretmenlik mesle\u011fime ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ilk g\u00fcnden beridir bunu yap\u0131yorum, ve yapaca\u011f\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, \u201cBir kez \u00f6\u011fretmen, her zaman \u00f6\u011fretmen\u201d mottosuyla ve akademisyen, e\u011fitmen, ment\u00f6r ve ko\u00e7 rollerimle hareket eden bir rehberim, yol g\u00f6stericisiyim, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k sa\u011flay\u0131c\u0131s\u0131y\u0131m, bilgiye ve bilgeli\u011fe eri\u015fmek isteyen herkes i\u00e7in bir arac\u0131y\u0131m. Bu u\u011furda aktif kat\u0131l\u0131m ve emek verebilece\u011fimi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm her f\u0131rsat\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmeye ve de\u011ferlerim ve emellerimle ba\u011fda\u015fan sivil toplum hareketlerinin par\u00e7as\u0131 olmaya bakt\u0131m hep. Say\u0131s\u0131z STK ile g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc i\u015f birli\u011fi yapt\u0131m, yap\u0131yorum. Ve \u015fimdi, 2023\u2019\u00fcn ilk g\u00fcnleriyle beraber, yeni bir platformun daha par\u00e7as\u0131 olman\u0131n mutlulu\u011fu ve gururu i\u00e7indeyim \u2013 o da Yan\u0131nday\u0131z Derne\u011fi<\/em>.*<\/p>\n

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Yan\u0131nday\u0131z, evrensel insan haklar\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fini savunan, cinsiyete dayal\u0131 ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 duran, her t\u00fcr engel ve \u00f6nyarg\u0131 ile m\u00fccadele eden, yasalarda, kurumlarda ve toplum hayat\u0131nda d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcme ve fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011fa \u00f6nayak olacak hareketi ate\u015fleyen, ve en \u00f6nemlisi bu m\u00fccadeleyi erkeklerin aktif kat\u0131l\u0131m\u0131yla s\u00fcrd\u00fcren bir dernektir. 3 Ocak 2023 g\u00fcn\u00fc, bir kad\u0131n olarak salt kad\u0131nlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda ve kad\u0131n haklar\u0131 savunucusu olarak de\u011fil, cinsiyet e\u015fitsizli\u011fi veya ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na maruz kalm\u0131\u015f her bireyin yan\u0131nda olmak \u00fczere Yan\u0131nday\u0131z Derne\u011fi \u00fcyesi oldum. \u00dcyelik ba\u015fvurumda, \u201cYan\u0131nday\u0131z \u00fcyesi olmak istiyorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc<\/em>\u2026\u201d sorusuna \u015f\u00f6yle yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n

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Ge\u00e7mi\u015f gelece\u011fin aynas\u0131d\u0131r derler; ben bug\u00fcne bak\u0131yorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bug\u00fcn\u00fcn \u015fartlar\u0131, icraatlar\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri ve bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131 gelece\u011fi ve gelecekte bizden sonraki nesillerin ba\u015f\u0131na gelecek ger\u00e7eklikleri (reality) yap\u0131land\u0131r\u0131yor. Bug\u00fcn ne ekersek sonraki nesillere bi\u00e7ti\u011fimizi b\u0131rakaca\u011f\u0131z. Mesleki hayat\u0131m boyunca gen\u00e7ler ve yeti\u015fkin gen\u00e7lerle (takribi 16-26 ya\u015f) \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m; t\u00fcm eme\u011fimi onlar\u0131n e\u011fitimine, geli\u015fimine ve her anlamda g\u00fc\u00e7lenmelerine emek vererek ge\u00e7irdim, halen de \u00f6yle yapmaktay\u0131m. Karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7indeki umudumuz olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum onlar\u0131. Haliyle de kad\u0131n-erkek, gen\u00e7-yeti\u015fkin, \u00f6\u011frenci-\u00e7al\u0131\u015fan diye ay\u0131rmadan, herkesin e\u015fit haklara ve f\u0131rsatlara eri\u015fimleri olabilmesi i\u00e7in bizlere \u00f6rnek ve \u00f6nder olma g\u00f6revi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. <\/em><\/p>\n

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Me\u015fhur bir ill\u00fcstrasyon vard\u0131r, e\u015fit hak ve hakkaniyet aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 betimler. Bug\u00fcnk\u00fc e\u015fitlik, hak, adalet, hakkaniyet, vb. ger\u00e7ekli\u011fini (reality) g\u00f6rd\u00fck\u00e7e umudum k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor, uykular\u0131m ka\u00e7\u0131yor, hiddet ve \u015fiddet duygular\u0131m kabar\u0131yor. Tek bildi\u011fim, hiddetle kalkman\u0131n zararla oturmaktan ba\u015fka bir sonu\u00e7 getirmeyece\u011fidir. Her t\u00fcrden e\u015fitlik, hakkaniyet, adalet in\u015fa etmek istiyorsak, ortak-yarat\u0131m (co-creation) yoluyla hedef-birli\u011fi, fikir-birli\u011fi, i\u015f-birli\u011fi, g\u00fc\u00e7-birli\u011fi i\u00e7inde olmal\u0131y\u0131z. \u0130\u015fte, ben de b\u00f6yle bir birli\u011fin par\u00e7as\u0131 olmak ve birlikte yaratmak istiyorum. Kumsaldaki deniz y\u0131ld\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 tek ba\u015f\u0131ma suya kavu\u015fturamayaca\u011f\u0131ma g\u00f6re, de\u011ferleri de\u011ferlerimle, anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131mla, e\u015fitlik savunu\u015fu savunu\u015f bi\u00e7imimle kavu\u015fan ve birle\u015fen bir yap\u0131n\u0131n par\u00e7as\u0131 olmak bana g\u00fc\u00e7 katacak. Sahip oldu\u011fum bilgi, beceri ve emekle de birli\u011fe g\u00fc\u00e7 kataca\u011f\u0131ma inan\u0131yorum. Bu nedenlerle YANINDAYIZ \u00fcyesi olmak istiyorum.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Dar alanda niyet ve motivasyon ifade etmek \u00e7ok da kolay de\u011fil. 17 Kas\u0131m 2021 tarihinde, toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitsizli\u011fine dair bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 Son D\u00fcello<\/a>\u00a0ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131mda payla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Kad\u0131n\u0131n erkek egemen toplumdaki yerinden ve erkeklik alg\u0131s\u0131 ve egemenli\u011fini koruma sevdas\u0131yla \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc yitirmesinden, ve cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi i\u00e7in kad\u0131n ile erke\u011fin bu u\u011furda birlikte emek vermesinin gerekli\u011finden bahsetmi\u015ftim. Aradan bir seneden fazla zaman ge\u00e7ti, daha net g\u00f6rebiliyorum ki, toplumsal geli\u015fim ve refah i\u00e7in en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fart toplumun herhangi bir kesimine d\u00f6n\u00fck pozitif ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131ktan ziyade, evrensel insan haklar\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131yla, her bireye hakketti\u011fi e\u015fit, hakkaniyetli ve adil yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 sunmakt\u0131r; dahas\u0131, kad\u0131n-erkek, \u00e7ocuk-yeti\u015fkin-ya\u015fl\u0131 diye ay\u0131rmaks\u0131z\u0131n, her birinin \u201cinsan\u201d (k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck insan da insan!) oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlamak ve hat\u0131rlatmakt\u0131r!<\/p>\n

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E\u015fitli\u011fin ve Yan\u0131nday\u0131z Derne\u011fi\u2019nin \u201cYan\u0131nda!<\/em>\u201d oldu\u011fumu s\u0131ralad\u0131ktan sonra, 5 Nisan 2023 g\u00fcn\u00fc, Yan\u0131nday\u0131z Derne\u011fi\u2019nin #kad\u0131nerkeke\u015fittirnokta Konferans\u0131n\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirece\u011fini duyuray\u0131m. Cumhuriyet\u2019imizin 100. y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131 kutlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu \u00f6zel senede, toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011finden ba\u015flayarak, her anlamda ve her alanda e\u015fitli\u011fe kavu\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve \u201cYa\u015fas\u0131n Cumhuriyet, Ya\u015fas\u0131n E\u015fitlik!\u201d diyebilece\u011fimiz nice y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131z olmas\u0131 dile\u011fiyle\u2026<\/p>\n

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Barcelona\u2019dan Shirli<\/p>\n

8 Ocak 2023<\/p>\n

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*Yan\u0131nday\u0131z Derne\u011fi – https:\/\/www.yanindayiz.org\/<\/a><\/p>\n

De\u011ferleri:<\/em><\/strong> Aktif, tutarl\u0131, \u015feffaf ve hesap verebilir, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00fcven ve sayg\u0131ya dayanan, ileti\u015fim, kat\u0131l\u0131m, i\u015f birli\u011fi ve payla\u015f\u0131ma a\u00e7\u0131k, i\u00e7inde yer almaktan gurur duyaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z proje ve uygulamalar\u0131 \u00f6ng\u00f6ren, bar\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 bir m\u00fccadele anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 benimsiyoruz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Yeni y\u0131l demek yeni ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar demek. Yeni giri\u015fimler, kararlar, at\u0131l\u0131mlar ve i\u015f birliklerini i\u00e7ermesi bak\u0131m\u0131ndan \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fu kadar, ge\u00e7mi\u015f y\u0131llarda yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, i\u015f birliklerimizin ve yat\u0131r\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclmesi bak\u0131m\u0131ndan da \u00f6nemlidir, yeni y\u0131la giri\u015f. Ge\u00e7mi\u015f y\u0131llarda \u00e7ok\u00e7a deli dolu ve \u201cak\u0131ll\u0131 i\u015fi\u201d diyece\u011fim \u015fey yapt\u0131m. \u00d6zellikle toplumsal ve insani fayday\u0131 g\u00f6zeten yat\u0131r\u0131mlarda bulundum ve \u00e7o\u011funlukla gen\u00e7lerin hedef […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5142,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[114],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5165","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5165","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5165"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5165\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5190,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5165\/revisions\/5190"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5142"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5165"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5165"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5165"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}