{"id":5021,"date":"2021-06-15T07:06:47","date_gmt":"2021-06-15T07:06:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/?p=5021\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T07:08:34","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T07:08:34","slug":"yasamin-degeri-dokundugun-hayatlarla-olculur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/yasamin-degeri-dokundugun-hayatlarla-olculur\/","title":{"rendered":"Ya\u015fam\u0131n De\u011feri Dokundu\u011fun Hayatlarla \u00d6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cHi\u00e7bir \u015fey g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi de\u011fildir\u201d derler. Bu s\u00f6ze \u00e7ok inan\u0131r\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, i\u00e7inde olanlar ancak detaylar\u0131 g\u00f6rebildi\u011fi i\u00e7in, d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda g\u00f6rd\u00fckleriniz (1) yan\u0131lt\u0131c\u0131 olabilir, (2) ger\u00e7e\u011fi t\u00fcm\u00fcyle yans\u0131tmayabilir, veya (3) baz\u0131 unsurlar ger\u00e7ekte olduklar\u0131ndan daha \u201cb\u00fcy\u00fck\u201d gibi g\u00f6sterilebilir; haliyle de ger\u00e7ekler d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczle s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. Bu ba\u011flamda, \u0130ngilizce\u2019de dendi\u011fi gibi kitab\u0131 kapa\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirmekten (judging a book by its cover) ya da d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gazel okumaktan ba\u015fka halimiz yok. Ancak, bir e\u011fitimci ve geli\u015fim ko\u00e7u olarak olgulara derinlemesine bakmay\u0131 se\u00e7mi\u015fimdir hep; metaforlardan, benzetmelerden ve sembollerden yararlanarak farkl\u0131 manalar \u00e7\u0131karmaya bakm\u0131\u015f\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her \u015fey detaylarda gizlidir. Anlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00fczere, bu yaz\u0131mda az biraz d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gazel okumaya niyetlendim\u2026 Tahmin de edece\u011finiz gibi de, gazelimi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz foto\u011fraf\u0131n \u00e7evresinde okuyaca\u011f\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ekranda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz bu foto\u011fraf 11 May\u0131s 2021 g\u00fcn\u00fcne, \u0130srail-Filistin \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n bir anl\u0131k kesitine ait bir kare! \u0130lk bak\u0131\u015fta ne g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczden pek emin de\u011filim, ama derinlemesine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda g\u00f6r\u00fcnenin \u00f6tesinde anlam veya mesajlar i\u00e7erebiliyor. Oldu\u011fu gibi betimleyecek olursam, darac\u0131k bir alan i\u00e7inde, bir taraftan at\u0131lan roketler h\u0131zla g\u00f6\u011fe y\u00fckseliyor, di\u011fer taraftan <em>demir kubbe<\/em>ye ait roketler gelenlerle bulu\u015fmak i\u00e7in k\u0131vr\u0131la k\u0131vr\u0131la yol al\u0131yor, artlar\u0131nda b\u0131rakt\u0131klar\u0131 \u0131\u015f\u0131k izi sonucunda bir noktada her gelen roketi yakal\u0131yor, \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 sonucu gece karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda e\u015fi benzeri olmayan bir \u0131\u015f\u0131k g\u00f6rseli yarat\u0131yorlar; \u00f6yle ki, bir foto\u011fraf sanat\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na sorsan\u0131z sanat harikas\u0131 diyebilir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Derinlemesine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde dans eden \u0131\u015f\u0131klar alt\u0131nda, kendimce bir\u00e7ok mana \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yorum. Adeta t\u0131slayan ve h\u0131\u015f\u0131mla ileri at\u0131lan zehirli bir y\u0131lana kar\u015f\u0131, nefsi m\u00fcdafaa i\u00e7in \u015fahlanan bir aslan var, mesela. Bir taraf sald\u0131rganl\u0131kla nefretini kusarken, di\u011fer taraf pisli\u011fe b\u00fcy\u00fck bir yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131kla, g\u00f6kte dans ederek kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k veriyor gibi&#8230; T\u00fcm g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kudretiyle k\u00fckrer gibi sald\u0131rmay\u0131 bilse de aslan, bunu yapm\u0131yor, gelene kendinden emin \u015fekilde cevap vermekle yetiniyor\u2026 Daha da derinlemesine, ba\u015fka g\u00f6zle bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, gece karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda usulca sesi duyulmayan korku k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131mlar\u0131, patlamaya haz\u0131r \u00f6fke tanecikleri ve giderek b\u00fcy\u00fcyen milliyet\u00e7ilik hareketleri g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum&#8230; Bu foto\u011fraf, ayr\u0131\u015fman\u0131n, kutupla\u015fman\u0131n ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n en \u00fcst seviyede vah\u015fice cereyan edi\u015fini g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne seriyor\u2026 Kar\u015f\u0131 taraftakini \u201ckom\u015fu\u201d yerine \u201c\u00f6teki\u201d olarak g\u00f6rmenin bedelini g\u00f6steriyor\u2026 Siyaset, y\u00f6netim, sa\u011fl\u0131k, g\u00fcvenlik, e\u011fitim, psikoloji, ileti\u015fim <em>sanatlar\u0131nda <\/em>s\u0131n\u0131fta kalm\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hayk\u0131r\u0131yor\u2026 Ve bu gidi\u015fle, insanl\u0131k olarak ne yerde ne de g\u00f6kte asla birle\u015femeyece\u011fimizi, ilelebet de \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fmaya mahk\u00fbm oldu\u011fumuzu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor! Karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde dans eden \u0131\u015f\u0131k izlerinden bu anlamlar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Karamsar konu\u015ftu\u011fuma bakmay\u0131n; umudum var, hala&#8230; Bu foto\u011frafta olmayan, ancak duydu\u011fum hikayeler, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fim ger\u00e7ekler var. Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi de\u011fil. Sosyal ve politik etmenler sonucu \u201c\u00f6tekile\u015ftirilmi\u015f\u201d kom\u015fusunu koruyan kollayan, yaral\u0131 esnaf\u0131 hastaneye yeti\u015ftiren, kaybetti\u011fi o\u011flunun organlar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayan \u0130srail\u2019li ve Filistin as\u0131ll\u0131 insanlar var. Bar\u0131\u015f i\u00e7inde ya\u015famay\u0131 bilen ve isteyen insanlar\u0131n seslerini bu gece karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndaki \u0131\u015f\u0131klar duyurmuyor maalesef. Biraz daha e\u011filip detayl\u0131ca bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda belki, korku ve \u00f6fke taneciklerinin yan\u0131nda karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde kaybolup g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen, birlikte bar\u0131\u015f i\u00e7inde ya\u015famay\u0131 benimsemi\u015f insanlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rebilirsiniz. \u00d6yle ki, kom\u015fusunun bah\u00e7esi g\u00fczel oldu\u011fu zaman ancak kendi bah\u00e7esinin g\u00fczel ve ya\u015fan\u0131r olaca\u011f\u0131na inanan bir zihniyet de var. Bu bana Golda Meir 1957\u2019de s\u00f6yledi\u011fi s\u00f6zleri an\u0131msat\u0131yor: \u201cBar\u0131\u015f, Araplar\u0131n kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 bizden nefret ettiklerinden daha \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fi zaman gelecek\u201d demi\u015fti. Bu s\u00f6z\u00fc illa Ortado\u011fu ve bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc bitemeyen \u0130srail-Filistin \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131yla de\u011fil, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde d\u00fcnyaca geldi\u011fimiz kutupla\u015fma ve ayr\u0131\u015fma seviyesiyle de ili\u015fkilendirebiliriz. Zira, \u00f6tekile\u015ftirme ve kutupla\u015fma konusundaki yetene\u011fimiz, Einstein\u2019\u0131n aptall\u0131\u011f\u0131 nitelendirdi\u011fi s\u00f6zleriyle birebir \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor: \u201cDeha ile aptall\u0131k aras\u0131ndaki fark, dehan\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 oldu\u011fu\u201d ve \u201c\u0130ki \u015fey sonsuzdur: evren ve aptall\u0131k. Evrenden \u00e7ok emin de\u011filim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Aptall\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve hamasetin sonsuzlu\u011funa de\u011fil de, dehan\u0131n, yani ki\u015finin kendisi ve insanl\u0131k ad\u0131na aktard\u0131\u011f\u0131 akl\u0131n nas\u0131l olabilece\u011fini vurgulamak i\u00e7in \u015fu k\u0131sa hikayeyle gazelime son vermek istiyorum. Hikaye Nursel Andi\u00e7\u2019in \u201cO Bir Kad\u0131n \u2013 United Women\u201d Facebook grubunda payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir al\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>M\u0131s\u0131r yeti\u015ftiren bir \u00e7ift\u00e7i, her y\u0131l en kaliteli m\u0131s\u0131r \u00f6d\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00fc al\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. \u00c7ift\u00e7i, \u00f6d\u00fcl ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0131s\u0131rlar\u0131n tohumlar\u0131n\u0131 da ekmeleri i\u00e7in kom\u015fular\u0131na da\u011f\u0131t\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Bunu \u00f6\u011frenen bir gazeteci r\u00f6portaj yapmak i\u00e7in \u00e7iftli\u011fe gelmi\u015f. Gazeteci \u00e7ift\u00e7iye sormu\u015f: \u201cSeninle her y\u0131l ayn\u0131 yar\u0131\u015fmaya giren kom\u015fular\u0131na, kaliteli tohumlar\u0131ndan vermeyi nas\u0131l g\u00f6ze alabiliyorsun?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00c7ift\u00e7i cevap vermi\u015f: \u201cYoksa bilmiyor musun? R\u00fczg\u00e2r, olgunla\u015fan m\u0131s\u0131rlardan polenleri al\u0131r ve tarla tarla da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r. E\u011fer kom\u015fular\u0131m kalitesiz m\u0131s\u0131r yeti\u015ftirirse \u00e7apraz tozla\u015fma sonucu her ge\u00e7en y\u0131l \u00fcretti\u011fim m\u0131s\u0131r\u0131n kalitesi d\u00fc\u015fer. E\u011fer kaliteli m\u0131s\u0131r yeti\u015ftirmek istiyorsam, kom\u015fular\u0131ma da kaliteli m\u0131s\u0131r yeti\u015ftirmeleri i\u00e7in yard\u0131m etmeliyim.\u201d demi\u015f. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ya\u015famlar\u0131m\u0131z da b\u00f6yledir. Hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 anlaml\u0131 ve iyi bir \u015fekilde ya\u015famak isteyenler ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 da zenginle\u015ftirmelidir. Bir ya\u015fam\u0131n de\u011feri dokundu\u011fu hayatlarla \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr. Ve mutlulu\u011fu se\u00e7enler, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n mutlulu\u011fa ula\u015fmas\u0131na yard\u0131m etmelidir. Birimizin refaha ula\u015fmas\u0131, herkesin refaha ula\u015fmas\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Buna kolektifin g\u00fcc\u00fc diyebilirsiniz, buna ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n ilkesi diyebilirsiniz, buna hayat kanunu diyebilirsiniz. Ger\u00e7ek \u015fu ki hi\u00e7birimiz kazanamay\u0131z, hepimiz birden kazanmad\u0131k\u00e7a.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>-Nursel Andi\u00e7, O Bir Kad\u0131n-United Women<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>B\u00f6ylesi ak\u0131llar\u0131n, az da olsa, var oldu\u011funu bilmek i\u00e7ime su serpiyor. Do\u011frusu, korku k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131mlar\u0131, patlamaya haz\u0131r \u00f6fke tanecikleri ve giderek b\u00fcy\u00fcyen milliyet\u00e7ilik hareketleriyle tutu\u015fan <em>aptallar\u0131n<\/em> yan\u0131nda, birlik ve bar\u0131\u015f i\u00e7inde ya\u015famay\u0131 benimseyen, \u00f6tekile\u015ftirmeye ra\u011fmen kom\u015fusunu koruyan kollayan, esnaf\u0131n\u0131 hastaneye yeti\u015ftiren, o\u011flunun organlar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayan <em>dehalar<\/em> oldu\u011fu m\u00fcddet\u00e7e, umut var demektir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>15 Haziran 2021<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cHi\u00e7bir \u015fey g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi de\u011fildir\u201d derler. Bu s\u00f6ze \u00e7ok inan\u0131r\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, i\u00e7inde olanlar ancak detaylar\u0131 g\u00f6rebildi\u011fi i\u00e7in, d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda g\u00f6rd\u00fckleriniz (1) yan\u0131lt\u0131c\u0131 olabilir, (2) ger\u00e7e\u011fi t\u00fcm\u00fcyle yans\u0131tmayabilir, veya (3) baz\u0131 unsurlar ger\u00e7ekte olduklar\u0131ndan daha \u201cb\u00fcy\u00fck\u201d gibi g\u00f6sterilebilir; haliyle de ger\u00e7ekler d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczle s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. Bu ba\u011flamda, \u0130ngilizce\u2019de dendi\u011fi gibi kitab\u0131 kapa\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirmekten (judging a book [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4999,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[114],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5021","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5021","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5021"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5021\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5022,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5021\/revisions\/5022"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4999"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5021"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5021"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5021"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}