{"id":4967,"date":"2021-04-21T10:31:52","date_gmt":"2021-04-21T10:31:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/?p=4967\/"},"modified":"2021-04-21T10:32:13","modified_gmt":"2021-04-21T10:32:13","slug":"acil-susam-acil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/acil-susam-acil\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u00e7\u0131l Susam A\u00e7\u0131l!"},"content":{"rendered":"

(Yazar\u0131\u00a0 sesli dinlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n.)<\/p>\n

Her yi\u011fidin bir yo\u011furt yiyi\u015fi vard\u0131r. Benimkisi de \u015fahs\u0131ma m\u00fcnhas\u0131r olsa gerek. Kendime g\u00f6re hayat\u0131 ele al\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imim vard\u0131r. Ba\u015f\u0131ma gelenlerle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131md\u0131r, ya\u015famla kavgam yoktur. \u00a0Kolay kolay s\u00f6ylenmem, olana bitene serzeni\u015fte bulunmam, olanlar\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcnsel olarak alg\u0131lamaya bakar, g\u00f6remesem de olanlar\u0131n ard\u0131nda olumlu taraf\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131r\u0131m. Polyanna\u2019ca bir optimizminden ziyade, ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i ve ak\u0131lc\u0131 bir olumlu bak\u0131\u015ft\u0131r benimkisi. \u201cHer i\u015fte bir hay\u0131r vard\u0131r, her \u015ferden iyi bir \u015fey do\u011fabilir, g\u00fcn do\u011fmadan neler do\u011far\u201d derim\u2026 Covid-19\u2019un bile getirdiklerine s\u00f6vmedim, hepsini ya\u015fam\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olarak kabul ettim. Ancak, bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc kabul edemedi\u011fim ve kabullenmekte zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir \u015fey var ki, isyan edesim var\u2026 \u0130stihdam potansiyeline sahip olmas\u0131na ve a\u00e7\u0131k uygun pozisyonlar olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen y\u00fczlerce gencin i\u015fe yerle\u015fememesi\u2026\u00a0 \u0130syan etmiyorum\u2026 Serzeni\u015fte de bulunmuyorum\u2026 Sadece anlamakta zorlan\u0131yorum\u2026<\/p>\n

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Y\u0131llard\u0131r gen\u00e7lerle \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum, y\u0131llard\u0131r onlara ment\u00f6rl\u00fck ve ko\u00e7luk yap\u0131yorum\u2026 Kariyer yollar\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturmalar\u0131na ve hayatlar\u0131nda ilerlemelerine rehberlik ediyorum. Beni en \u00e7ok \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtan baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00e7abaya ra\u011fmen hedeflerine ula\u015famamalar\u0131. Sorgulamadan edemiyorum, yollar\u0131n\u0131 engelleyen ne diye! Acaba kendi i\u00e7 dinamikleri mi, se\u00e7tikleri hedefler mi, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ya\u015fanan mu\u011flakl\u0131k ve belirsizlik mi; yoksa gen\u00e7lerin ki\u015fisel \u00f6zelliklerinin hayalini kurdu\u011fu pozisyona uymamas\u0131 m\u0131?\u00a0 Belki hepsi, belki hi\u00e7biri\u2026 Ancak kabul edelim ki, kariyer hayat\u0131n\u0131n bahar\u0131nda gen\u00e7lere f\u0131rsat vermek, kariyer hayat\u0131na ba\u015flamas\u0131na alan a\u00e7mak ve ilk ad\u0131mlar\u0131na destek olmak g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz liderlerinin boynunun borcudur\u2026<\/p>\n

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Geriye, 25-30 y\u0131l \u00f6ncesine bak\u0131yorum\u2026 \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131na ilk at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m zamanlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Hayat\u0131m\u0131z bu zamandan daha kolay de\u011fildi; daha geni\u015f f\u0131rsatlar i\u00e7inde de de\u011fildik. Hatta bilgi ve \u00e7e\u015fitli imkanlara eri\u015fimimiz \u00e7ok daha k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131yd\u0131. \u00c7ok daha dar bir sosyal a\u011f (network) i\u00e7inde ya\u015f\u0131yorduk. Ba\u015far\u0131m\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde kendi \u00e7abam\u0131za ba\u011fl\u0131yd\u0131. Ancak o d\u00f6nemlerde, hepimizin hayat\u0131nda kendi \u00e7abam\u0131z\u0131n t\u0131kand\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerde elimizden tutan, a\u00e7amad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kap\u0131lar\u0131 bize a\u00e7an, referans olup arka \u00e7\u0131kan hat\u0131r\u0131 say\u0131l\u0131 insanlar olmu\u015ftur. Bu ki\u015filerin bir s\u00f6z\u00fc veya referans\u0131 adeta bir alt\u0131n anahtar gibi yolumuzu a\u00e7maya muktedir idi. Ve a\u00e7m\u0131\u015flard\u0131 da!<\/p>\n

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Benim i\u00e7in de \u00f6yle oldu! \u00d6\u011fretmenlik kariyerimin ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 Korkmaz Yi\u011fit Anadolu Lisesinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmamla ba\u015flar. Sevgili Leon Co\u015fkun\u2019un arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla de\u011ferli e\u011fitimci \u0130brahim Betil\u2019in bana destek olu\u015funu asla unutamam. T\u00fcrl\u00fc okula ba\u015fvuruma ra\u011fmen \u201cstaj\u0131 kalkmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in alamay\u0131z\u201d s\u00f6ylemleriyle geri \u00e7evrildim. Halbuki \u00f6\u011fretmek ve gen\u00e7leri hayata haz\u0131rlamak i\u00e7in do\u011fmu\u015ftum adeta. \u00c7ok keyifli ve doyurucu \u00f6\u011fretmenlik y\u0131llar\u0131 ge\u00e7irdim; bir\u00e7ok \u00f6\u011frencimle halen yak\u0131n temas i\u00e7indeyim. Y\u0131llar sonra Milli E\u011fitim Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda t\u0131kanan yolumun a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131na de\u011ferli Bensiyon Pinto\u2019nun yard\u0131mc\u0131 olu\u015funa \u015f\u00fckran duyar\u0131m. O yol belki kendili\u011finden a\u00e7\u0131lacakt\u0131, ancak o ince dokunu\u015f do\u011fru zamanda do\u011fru yerde olmam\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131. Sonras\u0131nda kendi bilgi ve becerimle yeni f\u0131rsatlar \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ma, ba\u015fka alanlara at\u0131ld\u0131m ve bana de\u011fi\u015fik kariyer kap\u0131lar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n

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Son olarak yak\u0131n zamanda (10 sene olmu\u015f bile) can\u0131m hocalar\u0131m Prof. Dr. Ela \u00dcnler ile Prof. Dr. Tun\u00e7 Bozbura\u2019n\u0131n Bah\u00e7e\u015fehir \u00dcniversitesinde doktora program\u0131na kabul\u00fcme ve tezimde \u00f6nerdi\u011fim modele olan desteklerini unutamam. Doktora (PhD) uzun soluklu ciddi emek isteyen ki\u015finin kendini t\u00fcm\u00fcyle adamas\u0131n\u0131 gerektiren bir yolculuktur. Programa kabul kriterlerine sahip olsa bile bir\u00e7ok aday reddedilebilir. Ela Hocam ve Tun\u00e7 Hocam bana ve akademik d\u00fcnyaya yapaca\u011f\u0131m katk\u0131ya inanm\u0131\u015f ki beni desteklediler. Ben de var\u0131m\u0131 yo\u011fumu, akl\u0131m\u0131 ve t\u00fcm eme\u011fimi ak\u0131tarak kendime yara\u015f\u0131r i\u015f \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131m. Bunun sayesindedir ki bug\u00fcn bilgi, beceri ve deneyimlerime dayanarak Barcelona\u2019da European \u00dcniversitesinde (EU Business School) hayalimin i\u015fini icra ediyor, gen\u00e7lerle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya devam ediyorum.<\/p>\n

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Sonu\u00e7ta, anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m nokta, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir deste\u011fin hayat\u0131ma nas\u0131l da b\u00fcy\u00fck bir katk\u0131s\u0131 oldu\u011fu\u2026 Ku\u015fkusuz, sahip oldu\u011fum t\u00fcm bilgi, beceri ve deneyim, ve profesyonel \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131m ile bug\u00fcn geldi\u011fim konum kendi \u00e7abam sayesinde oldu. Bug\u00fcnlere geldim, ancak kariyer hayat\u0131mda ve baz\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktalar\u0131nda bana f\u0131rsat veren say\u0131l\u0131 ki\u015filerin katk\u0131lar\u0131 geli\u015fmeme, ilerlememe, t\u00fcrl\u00fc at\u0131l\u0131mlarda bulunmama ve kendi alan\u0131mda liderlik etmeme yads\u0131namaz derecede itici g\u00fc\u00e7 oldular.<\/p>\n

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\u00d6zetle, hi\u00e7bir destek bo\u015fa gitmedi, gitmez de! Y\u0131llard\u0131r gen\u00e7lerle \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken daima bu anlay\u0131\u015fla yakla\u015ft\u0131m. Gen\u00e7lerin kendi alanlar\u0131nda ve yollar\u0131nda \u00fcstlerine d\u00fc\u015fen g\u00f6revi en lay\u0131k\u0131yla yapacaklar\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum. Bize -yani biz liderler ve bu yollardan ge\u00e7mi\u015f deneyim sahibi olanlara d\u00fc\u015fen g\u00f6rev ise, ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 do\u011frultusunda gen\u00e7lere yol g\u00f6stermek, onlara beceri kazand\u0131rarak a\u00e7amad\u0131klar\u0131 kap\u0131lar\u0131 a\u00e7malar\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak, ve gerekirse bizzat onlar i\u00e7in kap\u0131lar\u0131 a\u00e7mak. Hayat\u0131mda, bilerek veya bilmeyerek, bana farkl\u0131 kap\u0131lar a\u00e7an, ufkumu zenginle\u015ftiren, bana g\u00fc\u00e7 veren, bana inanan ve kendime inanmam\u0131 sa\u011flayan \u00e7ok\u00e7a ki\u015fi oldu. Onlar yasland\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir dayanak<\/em> de\u011fil, kendi ayaklar\u0131m \u00fczerinde durmama \u00f6nayak<\/em> oldular. Bug\u00fcn gen\u00e7lerin belki de en \u00e7ok ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu bu!<\/p>\n

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Diyece\u011fim o ki, hayat\u0131m\u0131zda kime ve ne bi\u00e7imde katk\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za dikkat vermeliyiz. Destek sa\u011flamaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermeliyiz. Hayata yeni at\u0131lan gen\u00e7lere f\u0131rsat vermeliyiz. S\u0131f\u0131rdan ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zamanlar\u0131 hat\u0131rlay\u0131p, yeni ba\u015flayanlarda \u201ctecr\u00fcbe\u201d aramaktan ziyade, tecr\u00fcbe edinmelerine f\u0131rsat ve ortam yaratmal\u0131y\u0131z. Beceri ve kapasitelerini i\u015fleyebilecekleri alanlar vererek kendilerine inanmalar\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmal\u0131y\u0131z. Kendine olan inan\u00e7lar\u0131 onlara olan inanc\u0131m\u0131zla direk ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131! Onlara f\u0131rsat vermedi\u011fimiz ve alan a\u00e7mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z s\u00fcrece onlar\u0131n kendilerine \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma alan\u0131 a\u00e7ma olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck. Nitekim, onlarca \u00f6zge\u00e7mi\u015f (CV) var elimde, halen i\u015fe yerle\u015fmeyi bekleyen gen\u00e7lerin umutsuz hallerini anlat\u0131yor bana.<\/p>\n

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Bu \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131m liderlere\u2026 karar al\u0131c\u0131lara\u2026 i\u015f verenlere\u2026 i\u015fe al\u0131m yapanlara\u2026 kilit pozisyonlarda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlara\u2026 bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131 siz okuyanlara\u2026 L\u00fctfen, 25-30 y\u0131ll\u0131k kariyer ge\u00e7mi\u015finize bir anl\u0131k g\u00f6z at\u0131n ve hat\u0131rlay\u0131n: bug\u00fcn sahip oldu\u011funuz konuma geli\u015finizin hikayesini; evrenin sizi nas\u0131l \u00f6d\u00fcllendirdi\u011fini; ve kimlerin sizin i\u00e7in \u201cA\u00e7\u0131l susam a\u00e7\u0131l!\u201d demesiyle yolunuzun a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 an\u0131msay\u0131n. \u015eimdi s\u0131ra sizde\u2026 E\u011fer \u201cElimden bir \u015fey gelecekse muhakkak harekete ge\u00e7erim\u201d diyorsan\u0131z, i\u015fte tam zaman\u0131! \u201cA\u00e7\u0131l susam a\u00e7\u0131l!\u201d deme ve evrenin sizi \u00f6d\u00fcllendirdi\u011fi gibi gen\u00e7 neslin \u00f6d\u00fcllendirilmesine katk\u0131 yapma zaman\u0131n\u0131z…\u00a0 Gen\u00e7lerin deste\u011finize ihtiyac\u0131 var!<\/p>\n

21 Nisan 2021<\/p>\n

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(Yazar\u0131\u00a0 sesli dinlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n.) Her yi\u011fidin bir yo\u011furt yiyi\u015fi vard\u0131r. Benimkisi de \u015fahs\u0131ma m\u00fcnhas\u0131r olsa gerek. Kendime g\u00f6re hayat\u0131 ele al\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imim vard\u0131r. Ba\u015f\u0131ma gelenlerle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131md\u0131r, ya\u015famla kavgam yoktur. \u00a0Kolay kolay s\u00f6ylenmem, olana bitene serzeni\u015fte bulunmam, olanlar\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcnsel olarak alg\u0131lamaya bakar, g\u00f6remesem de olanlar\u0131n ard\u0131nda olumlu taraf\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131r\u0131m. Polyanna\u2019ca bir optimizminden ziyade, ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4969,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[114],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4967","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4967","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4967"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4967\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4970,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4967\/revisions\/4970"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4969"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4967"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4967"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4967"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}