{"id":4801,"date":"2020-08-12T11:39:48","date_gmt":"2020-08-12T11:39:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/?p=4801\/"},"modified":"2020-11-06T17:20:13","modified_gmt":"2020-11-06T17:20:13","slug":"bu-da-gecer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/bu-da-gecer\/","title":{"rendered":"Bu da Ge\u00e7er"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(Yazar\u0131 sesli dinlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n.)<br \/>\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-4801-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/11-Bu-da-Gecer.m4a?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/11-Bu-da-Gecer.m4a\">https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/11-Bu-da-Gecer.m4a<\/a><\/audio><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>Hayat dedi\u011fin \u015fey, do\u011fum ile \u00f6l\u00fcm aras\u0131nda s\u00fcre gelenler ve ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131ndan ibarettir. \u00d6nemli olan, nas\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131r! Kaliteli hayat olaylara verdi\u011fin tepkilerde gizlidir. Zira, hayat ini\u015fli \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015fl\u0131d\u0131r&#8230; bir yukar\u0131lardas\u0131n, bir an gelir a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lara, diplerde y\u00fczer bulursun kendini. Her \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fken&#8230; ne zaman ne olaca\u011f\u0131 belli olmayan s\u00fcrprizlerle dolu&#8230; \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131, \u00f6\u011fretici, geli\u015ftirici, ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc&#8230; As\u0131l en g\u00fczel taraf\u0131, hayatta hi\u00e7 bir \u015feyin dura\u011fan olmamas\u0131&#8230; ve asla ayn\u0131 noktada kalmayaca\u011f\u0131n&#8230; Nerde olursan ol, an\u0131n fark\u0131nda ol, hakk\u0131n\u0131 vererek ya\u015fa, tad\u0131na var!<\/em>\u201d \u2013Shirli Ender B\u00fcy\u00fckbay<\/p>\n<p>\u015eu sat\u0131rlar\u0131 benim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6zel bir yer ve zamanda yaz\u0131yorum. \u00d6zel olu\u015funun nedeni, Mart 2020\u2019de karantinaya girdi\u011fimizden beri bu an\u0131n i\u00e7inde olman\u0131n hayali i\u00e7indeydim. Her \u015fey ihtimaller dahilindeydi; burada olmak da vard\u0131, olmamak da&#8230; Hepsine kabuld\u00fcm&#8230; Veee \u015fimdi buraday\u0131m! Adeta bir cennetteyim! \u015eimdi ve burada olman\u0131n hakk\u0131n\u0131 vererek ya\u015f\u0131yorum&#8230; doyas\u0131ya, evrenin bana bah\u015fetti\u011fi t\u00fcm g\u00fczelliklerinden faydalanarak&#8230; Hayal d\u00fcnyas\u0131na kap\u0131lmadan, ger\u00e7eklerin fark\u0131nda olarak&#8230; Bilerek ki, \u201c\u015fu an\u201d da bir zaman sonra sona erecek&#8230; Belki bir an gelecek ve olaylar beni yukar\u0131lara u\u00e7uracak, belki de a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lara \u00e7ekecek&#8230; ama ne olursa olsun o da ge\u00e7ecek&#8230; Karantina d\u00f6neminde t\u00fcnelin ucundaki \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6remesek de, sonunda \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015fa geldi\u011fimiz gibi&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>Sonu\u00e7ta, her \u015fey insan i\u00e7in&#8230; bir an var, bir an yok! Durgun havada aniden kuvvetli r\u00fczgar\u0131n \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 gibi, veya bulutlar\u0131n aras\u0131ndan g\u00fcne\u015fin y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi gibi&#8230; her \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fken! Olaylar sanki kendi ajandas\u0131nda seyrediyor, bize de uyum sa\u011flamak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Yani, demeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fu ki, i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz an ve getirdikleri kal\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil, ge\u00e7ici&#8230; Er ya da ge\u00e7, o da ge\u00e7er. Bu felsefenin \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirici \u00f6zelli\u011fini vurgulayan \u00e7ok \u00f6zel bir hikayeyle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak istiyorum sizi. <\/p>\n<p>Eski zamanlar bir kral, bir g\u00fcn bilgelerine \u201cd\u00fcnyan\u0131n en g\u00fczel p\u0131rlantalar\u0131ndan biriyle bir y\u00fcz\u00fck yapmak istiyorum&#8230; Y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn alt\u0131na girebilecek kadar k\u0131sa, \u00e7aresizlik anlar\u0131mda bana hizmet edebilecek  ve sonsuza dek miras\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131m olacak bir mesaj\u0131 buraya saklamak istiyorum\u201d demi\u015f. Bilgeler, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015fler, aram\u0131\u015flar, ancak zor anlarda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilecek bilgece ve y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn alt\u0131na s\u0131\u011facak bir mesaj bulamam\u0131\u015flar. Kral\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcten, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015ftan beri yan\u0131nda olan ya\u015fl\u0131 hizmetkar\u0131, \u201cak\u0131ll\u0131 de\u011filim, e\u011fitimli de\u011filim, akademik de\u011filim, ama arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n mesaj\u0131 biliyorum\u201d demi\u015f; ve \u201csaraydaki hayat\u0131m boyunca her t\u00fcrl\u00fc insanla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ve baban taraf\u0131ndan davet edilen bir bilgeyle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m\u201d diyerek bir ka\u011f\u0131da bir \u015feyler yazm\u0131\u015f, katlay\u0131p krala vermi\u015f. \u201cAma okuma\u201d, \u201conu sakl\u0131 tut, ve yaln\u0131zca ba\u015fka \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda a\u00e7 ve oku\u201d demi\u015f. <\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ok ge\u00e7meden y\u00f6netimde bir sorun \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f. Kral sava\u015f\u0131 kaybetmi\u015f, at\u0131yla ka\u00e7m\u0131\u015f, d\u00fc\u015fmanlar da onu takip etmi\u015f. Yaln\u0131zm\u0131\u015f, ve d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131 say\u0131ca \u00e7okmu\u015f. Yolun bitti\u011fi, \u00e7\u0131kmaz bir yere gelmi\u015f. \u00d6n\u00fc derin bir vadi ve u\u00e7urummu\u015f; d\u00fc\u015fse sonu olurmu\u015f. Geriye de d\u00f6nemezmi\u015f, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fc\u015fman yolu ge\u00e7mi\u015f bile. Kral d\u00fc\u015fman atlar\u0131n\u0131n sesini duyabiliyormu\u015f. \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu yokmu\u015f. \u0130\u015fte o \u00e7aresizlik an\u0131nda y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fc hat\u0131rlam\u0131\u015f, ve ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p k\u0131sa mesaj\u0131 okumu\u015f: \u201cbu da ge\u00e7er\u201d (this too shall pass). Mesaj\u0131 okur okumaz kendini m\u00fcthi\u015f bir sessizli\u011fin sard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissetmi\u015f. Onu takip eden d\u00fc\u015fman sesleri de gelmiyormu\u015f. Muhtemelen ormanda kaybolmu\u015flar, ya da yanl\u0131\u015f y\u00f6ne gitmi\u015fler. Kral hizmetkar\u0131na ve bilinmeyen bilgeye minnettar duygular i\u00e7inde elindeki ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 katlay\u0131p y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn alt\u0131na geri koymu\u015f, ve ordular\u0131n\u0131 toplay\u0131p krall\u0131\u011f\u0131na geri d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f. <\/p>\n<p>Saray\u0131na d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, kral i\u00e7in danslar ve m\u00fczikler e\u015fli\u011finde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015f\u00f6len verilmi\u015f. Kral kendini \u00e7ok iyi hissetmi\u015f. Ya\u015fl\u0131 hizmetkar\u0131 yan\u0131na gelmi\u015f ve \u201cBu an bile mesaja bakman i\u00e7in uygun\u201d demi\u015f. Kral \u201c\u015eimdi kazand\u0131m, insanlar d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc kutluyor, umutsuz de\u011filim, bir \u00e7\u0131kmazda da de\u011filim\u201d demi\u015f. Ya\u015fl\u0131 hizmetkar, \u201cBu mesaj yaln\u0131zca yenildi\u011finde, a\u00e7mazda oldu\u011funda de\u011fil, kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da yararl\u0131\u201d demi\u015f. Kral y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn i\u00e7indeki ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 yeniden a\u00e7m\u0131\u015f ve okumu\u015f: \u201cbu da ge\u00e7er.\u201d Kral yine ayn\u0131 \u015feyi hissetmi\u015f&#8230; dans ve kutlamalar\u0131n aras\u0131nda bir sessizlik i\u00e7ine i\u015flemi\u015f. Gururu ve egosu gitmi\u015f&#8230; mesaj\u0131 anlam\u0131\u015f&#8230; ayd\u0131nlanm\u0131\u015f&#8230; Sonras\u0131nda ya\u015fl\u0131 adama d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f ve \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00f6ylemi\u015f: \u201cba\u015f\u0131na gelen her \u015feyi hat\u0131rla; hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey ve hi\u00e7 bir duygu kal\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fildir&#8230; ayn\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u00fcz ve gece olmas\u0131 gibi, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc anlar ve mutlu anlar vard\u0131r&#8230; bunlar\u0131 do\u011fal olarak benimse, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunlar hayat\u0131n par\u00e7alar\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>[Rivayete g\u00f6re, bu hikaye Kral S\u00fcleyman\u2019a ait; ve kral\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn alt\u0131na gizledi\u011fi ka\u011f\u0131tta b\u00fcy\u00fck harflerle GZY yaz\u0131l\u0131ym\u0131\u015f. GZY \u0130branice dilinde \u201cbu da ge\u00e7er\u201d anlam\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan Gam Ze Yaavor\u2019un ba\u015f harfleriymi\u015f.]<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zetle, diyece\u011fim \u015fu ki, hayat k\u0131sa&#8230; bir \u00f6yle bir b\u00f6yle&#8230; Bir an vard\u0131r ki, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lardas\u0131nd\u0131r; ama uzun s\u00fcrmez, yine y\u00fckseli\u015fe ge\u00e7ersin&#8230; Bir an da vard\u0131r ki, yukar\u0131lardas\u0131nd\u0131r&#8230; Aman diyeyim, sak\u0131n y\u00fckseklik sarho\u015flu\u011funa kap\u0131lma&#8230; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onun da bir sonu, bir ini\u015fi var! \u0130\u015fte o y\u00fczden, her ne\/nerede olursan ol, an\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi, hakk\u0131n\u0131 vererek ya\u015fa&#8230; Bir an sonra elinden gidebilece\u011finin fark\u0131nda olarak ya\u015fa&#8230; Hali haz\u0131rda i\u00e7indeyken de\u011ferini bilerek ya\u015fa&#8230; Ona ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 de\u011fil ba\u011fl\u0131 kalarak ya\u015fa&#8230; Ve&#8230; kim oldu\u011funu bil; senin i\u00e7in neyin de\u011ferli oldu\u011funu an\u0131msa; ve varl\u0131k amac\u0131n\u0131 asla unutma! <\/p>\n<p>12 A\u011fustos 2020<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Yazar\u0131 sesli dinlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n.) \u201cHayat dedi\u011fin \u015fey, do\u011fum ile \u00f6l\u00fcm aras\u0131nda s\u00fcre gelenler ve ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131ndan ibarettir. \u00d6nemli olan, nas\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131r! Kaliteli hayat olaylara verdi\u011fin tepkilerde gizlidir. Zira, hayat ini\u015fli \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015fl\u0131d\u0131r&#8230; bir yukar\u0131lardas\u0131n, bir an gelir a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lara, diplerde y\u00fczer bulursun kendini. Her \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fken&#8230; ne zaman ne olaca\u011f\u0131 belli olmayan s\u00fcrprizlerle dolu&#8230; \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131, \u00f6\u011fretici, geli\u015ftirici, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4803,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[114],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4801","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4801","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4801"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4801\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4828,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4801\/revisions\/4828"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4803"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4801"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4801"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindthepositive.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4801"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}